The idealism of youth.
Picture the scene, three years ago a cocky white middle class 14 year old and his mates parading round the store drinking red bull, his jeans trendily imitating a builders, showing the gross builder's bum, his baby face surrounded by unkempt medium length hair.
Fast forward three years, the same lad, now 18 was out in the car park pushing trolleys an inane grin upon his face and his hair one mass of ragged dreadlocks.
"Oh my god" I thought i'd seen the last of him when he left school and stopped calling into the store.
I took time to get to know him when he passed through the foyer on his way to the canteen.
Eddie is his name and he's studying music at college, he's still a rebel but he needs to earn some money in order to go to uni.
He's cool, not innoffensive and we've sort of connected in a strange sort of way. He really doesn't want to conform and as I found out he should be working on the tills but prefers to be in the car park (more scope for skiving) so he finds any means he can to work out there.
Three months have passed and he has got progressively sloppy with his appearance 'til saturday when he was needed on the tills and the manageress had a fit when she saw him!!
"Eddie" she said, "what will the customers think with you looking like that"(his hair was becoming more matted, he hadn't ironed his shirt and he was wearing braids around his neck which he hasn't taken off for four years) "Go home", she said "sort yourself out and come back in an hour."
He came to me in the foyer, looking pained, "flaming manageress" he said "why did they give me the job in the first place if they don't like my hair?" "If they hadn't given me the crappy job in the first place then I wouldn't have to quit the crappy job"
We spoke at length about the pros and cons of him quitting over a fashion statement and although he concluded that he wasn't changing for anyone, he conceded that he could compromise by tying his hair neatly while working and fastening his top collar button to cover his braids.
Half an hour later he left and didn't return. Wether he's jacked in the job, I don't know...watch this space, i'll find out on Friday.
I admire him for his principles on wanting to retain his individuality, but he would only have to make small concessions and as he once said to me
"I don't seem to be able to get a job very easily the way I look".
I hope he comes back and sees his studies through, then when he's a successful musician and can dress how he pleases, he can look back at his time at the supermarket and be proud that he saw it through.





